How I work

Marriage coaching for mums

With Carol Fare 

I hear so often from mums that they feel invisible in their marriage. It’s not always easy to see a way forward.

When you’re not clear whether you want to stay in your marriage you can end up in marriage limbo.  You don’t know what to do, so end up doing nothing, and nothing changes.  Leaving you stuck in marriage limbo.

There is a way forward

Using my Art and Science of Being Married© process I can help you get clear on what needs to change AND how to make those changes happen so that

  • You create the marriage that you want to be in
  • You enjoy time with your husband again
  • You can be the kind of mum you always wanted to be

If any of this sounds like it’s for you, please get in touch

Making My Marriage Work

online support

Your marriage looks great from the outside.  But on the inside it’s not working for you.  You’re drifting along in a marriage that’s not working for you and start to wonder whether you can stay together.

Making My Marriage Work is a new a unique way to get support with your marriage.  You’ll get a weekly email and video, plus a monthly masterclass when you’ll learn about the Marriage Saving Steps you can start using to make your marriage work. 


Can My Marriage Make It?

1:1 Session 

You’re stuck in a marriage which you’re not sure has a future. You want to give it one last chance. But when you don’t feel confident your marriage can make it, you don’t know what to do next.

In your 90 minute session with me, I will take you through my step by step process which will help you get clear about whether you marriage can make it.  You will leave the session clearer about whether your marriage can make it and what you’re going to do next.

Book your session for £99

Mend Your

VIP 1:1 Programme

You’re not happy in your marriage and sometimes wonder if it has a future. You want to try again but don’t know what to do or how to make that happen.

In our 90 days working together, I will take you through the Mend Your Marriage process which will give you everything you need to go from wondering if your marriage will make it, to creating a marriage you can’t imagine leaving. So that you can start creating a marriage you want to stay in and look forward to your future with your husband.


Some of the mums I've worked with have kindly shared their experience

"When we began our sessions I couldn’t imagine spending the rest of my life with my husband.  And then felt guilty for even thinking about splitting up. 

Now I understand my marriage more, I feel stronger and better about myself.  I feel confident I can handle whatever happens."

"I now know I’m giving my marriage it’s best chance.  Through the work we’ve done together, I know I’ll have given everything I can to save my marriage. 

I no longer feel scared by the thought that maybe we won’t make it.  And I’m not constantly thinking and worrying about my marriage.  Which makes it much easier for me to do what I need to do to give my marriage one last chance."

"I felt like I’d lost me.  Life was so busy doing everything for everyone else, that I stopped being me.  And started to think that my marriage and life was no longer enough.  

I’ve now learnt that it’s ok to put me first as well.  At work, in my family as well as in my marriage.  

Now I feel adaptable and resilient and can face whatever life throws at me." 

The Art & Science of Marraige

Carol Fare’s Blog

If he would change our marriage would be OK

If he would change our marriage would be OK

You know what needs to happen in your marriage for things to improve.  If your husband would change then everything would be great in your marriage. He just needs to Stop doing thatStart doing thisDo that right But even though you’ve talked about it, and maybe...

I can’t stop thinking about my marriage

I can’t stop thinking about my marriage

When you’re trying to work out what to do about your marriage, it makes sense that you think about it a lot.  Your marriage is important to you and if you’re trying to figure if you can save it, of course you’re going to think about it.  You’ll probably have questions...

Should we stay together for the children?

Should we stay together for the children?

This is a question I often hear the mums I work with grapple with When you’re in a marriage which is not working for you, that’s hard for you.  But when you’ve also got children, it adds another layer of concern and worry.  As well as a dose of guilt. How...

We don’t have fun together anymore

We don’t have fun together anymore

‘I don’t have fun with my husband anymore’ ‘We don’t have time for each other’ ‘All we talk about are the kids and jobs at home’ Have you found yourself saying any of these.  If you have, you’re not alone.  It’s a common experience I hear from the mums who...

Can my marriage make it?

Can my marriage make it?

When you’re trying to decide what to do about your marriage, your head is full of thoughts, questions, and worries Should I stay and give it one last chance? Should I leave and start rebuilding my life? What if I make a choice I later regret and wish I'd done...

Making a decision I can live with

Making a decision I can live with

When you’re not happy in your marriage, it can be really difficult to know what to do about it. Do you stay and give it another try? Should you call it a day, leave and start rebuilding your life? What if I make the wrong choice and then later regret it? Mums tell me...