The Art & Science of Marraige

Carol Fare’s Blog

If he would change our marriage would be OK

If he would change our marriage would be OK

You know what needs to happen in your marriage for things to improve.  If your husband would change then everything would be great in your marriage. He just needs to Stop doing thatStart doing thisDo that right But even though you’ve talked about it, and maybe...

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I can’t stop thinking about my marriage

I can’t stop thinking about my marriage

When you’re trying to work out what to do about your marriage, it makes sense that you think about it a lot.  Your marriage is important to you and if you’re trying to figure if you can save it, of course you’re going to think about it.  You’ll probably have questions...

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Should we stay together for the children?

Should we stay together for the children?

This is a question I often hear the mums I work with grapple with When you’re in a marriage which is not working for you, that’s hard for you.  But when you’ve also got children, it adds another layer of concern and worry.  As well as a dose of guilt. How...

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We don’t have fun together anymore

We don’t have fun together anymore

‘I don’t have fun with my husband anymore’ ‘We don’t have time for each other’ ‘All we talk about are the kids and jobs at home’ Have you found yourself saying any of these.  If you have, you’re not alone.  It’s a common experience I hear from the mums who...

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Can my marriage make it?

Can my marriage make it?

When you’re trying to decide what to do about your marriage, your head is full of thoughts, questions, and worries Should I stay and give it one last chance? Should I leave and start rebuilding my life? What if I make a choice I later regret and wish I'd done...

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Making a decision I can live with

Making a decision I can live with

When you’re not happy in your marriage, it can be really difficult to know what to do about it. Do you stay and give it another try? Should you call it a day, leave and start rebuilding your life? What if I make the wrong choice and then later regret it? Mums tell me...

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