"Can my marriage make it?"

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When you don’t know what to do about your marriage, it’s painful and exhausting. You got married believing this was your forever relationship, but now it doesn’t feel like that and you’re contemplating splitting up. You don’t know how you ended up here or what to do next.

There is a way forward

I’m Carol

I help mums figure out if their marriage can make it so they can give it one last chance.

I know it hurts to think that your marriage might be heading for the rocks. You’ve got a million thoughts and what-ifs going round your head, so you can’t concentrate, can’t sleep, can’t focus on what matters to you. It’s confusing, it’s scary and it’s lonely to try and handle on your own.

But you don’t have to do it on your own.

Can My Marriage Make it Checklist

If you’re wondering whether your marriage has a future, this checklist will help you get clearer

testimonials

Some of the mums I've worked with have kindly shared their experience

"When we began our sessions I couldn’t imagine spending the rest of my life with my husband.  And then felt guilty for even thinking about splitting up. 

Now I understand my marriage more, I feel stronger and better about myself.  I feel confident I can handle whatever happens."

"I now know I’m giving my marriage it’s best chance.  Through the work we’ve done together, I know I’ll have given everything I can to save my marriage. 

I no longer feel scared by the thought that maybe we won’t make it.  And I’m not constantly thinking and worrying about my marriage.  Which makes it much easier for me to do what I need to do to give my marriage one last chance."

"I felt like I’d lost me.  Life was so busy doing everything for everyone else, that I stopped being me.  And started to think that my marriage and life was no longer enough.  

I’ve now learnt that it’s ok to put me first as well.  At work, in my family as well as in my marriage.  

Now I feel adaptable and resilient and can face whatever life throws at me." 

The Art & Science of Marraige

Carol Fare’s Blog

Should we stay together for the children?

Should we stay together for the children?

This is a question I often hear the mums I work with grapple with When you’re in a marriage which is not working for you, that’s hard for you.  But when you’ve also got children, it adds another layer of concern and worry.  As well as a dose of guilt. How...

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We don’t have fun together anymore

We don’t have fun together anymore

‘I don’t have fun with my husband anymore’ ‘We don’t have time for each other’ ‘All we talk about are the kids and jobs at home’ Have you found yourself saying any of these.  If you have, you’re not alone.  It’s a common experience I hear from the mums who...

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Can my marriage make it?

Can my marriage make it?

When you’re trying to decide what to do about your marriage, your head is full of thoughts, questions, and worries Should I stay and give it one last chance? Should I leave and start rebuilding my life? What if I make a choice I later regret and wish I'd done...

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Making a decision I can live with

Making a decision I can live with

When you’re not happy in your marriage, it can be really difficult to know what to do about it. Do you stay and give it another try? Should you call it a day, leave and start rebuilding your life? What if I make the wrong choice and then later regret it? Mums tell me...

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Everything he does irritates me

Everything he does irritates me

Do you have days like this? When everything your husband does annoys or irritates you.  And you end up saying something.  Telling him what’s annoying you.  Which comes out as grumbly or moaning.   And your husband tells you you’re just being...

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